In my experience, answers to life’s difficult questions materialize as I write about my questions, concerns, fears, hopes, and dreams. I would craft a well-written book if I were able to, but for 30 years I have made many attempts multiple times each year, and I have not produced or published a word.
The unavoidable solution, I have decided, is simply to start writing regularly, as often and as much as I can, to discover the answers I need.
It's About Time 